One thing I have heard is that big companies often care whether you have a record from the last 5-7 years, so as the conviction is further in your past you may find that it gets at least somewhat easier. Even the "Fair Chance Ordinance" mentioned in this thread only applies to convictions older than 7 years.
I don't think there is any creative way to hack this problem, since it is a trust problem, and remote work may make that trust piece even harder.
I'm in much the same boat. I feel like for this to seriously change, the laws have to change. That's no small feat.
As long as there are for-profit prisons, there's little/no incentive for criminal laws to change.
San Francisco has the "Fair Chance Ordinance", but you actually have to LIVE there for it to apply to you.
https://sfgov.org/olse/fair-chance-ordinance-fco
I have reached out to you via email, btw. It was back in November. I haven't spoken about that stuff publicly, hence the throwaway account. :/
Typically this comes up where you're hiring someone for a similar (or the same) sort of work that they got in trouble for.
The same thing will happen if you lie on your employment application; the instant that the employer finds out you lied, they have to fire you or their insurance will stop covering anything you do.
It's possible that insurance is at play, or that their HR department is being overzealous about avoiding risk to the company via that method.
What is the charge. It wasn't 'playing with bitcoins'. Was it fraud? If so, I would be hesitant to hire someone, especially if they are coding in areas where money or other high security was required. I believe while everyone makes mistakes, morals tend to stay the same. So for me I would consider if a charge was a mistake anyone could make, or someone of dubious morals.
Side question: are you allowed to ask for a potential employees charge sheet? If you just see 'yes' to criminal record you may hesitate to hire someone. If you see what they did you can see if it was recent, many, types of offences and you may be more reasonable based on the facts.
(I believe strongly that society should forgive and that former addicts suffer from unfair stigma.)
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