There are a number of good books on both leadership and management. Harvard Business Review has a lot of smaller books on leadership and management like this one:

https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Become-Leaders-Michael-Watki...

One of the challenges though in management is understanding what the business wants from you. Once you understand that you can be effective (and pick the right books to read)

I have found The Manager's Path useful about this. She goes into good detail about what it means to be a manager vs a tech lead, for example.

https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...

Not sure what you mean exactly when you say "what you've described," but if it's the technical lead part, this book is phenomenal:

https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Technical-Leader-Problem-Sol...