I'm not saying that there's no very big model, just saying that it's a minority of publications, for any trivia example of big model I can show you 10x trivia examples of relevant non-big models.
Also you are talking about a model which is specifically designed for TPU (the dimensionality of the networks is especially fine-tuned).
And even tho, BERT_large still fit in the memory of a single GPU (for very small batch), there is an implementation on Pytorch. I don't understand, are people complaining that Deep Learning is actually (reasonably) scaling ? Isn't it a good news ?