It is time to cope with it.
File descriptors are themselves an artificial construct that can be coded around. In the unlikely event that this attack ever became super relevant, a relatively simple kernel module could drastically amp up the number of connections a host could absorb --- although a RED queue would probably keep you from having to go even that far.
* most webapps don't allow giant user uploads of any kind
* if you have a persistent user with a net connection that's that slow then you have no choice but to time him out
There's also no reason why you need to time this person out. If you configure kernel and application for small (or auto-sizing) buffers and use an event-based structure for the application, you should be just fine.
* If you configure kernel and application for small (or auto-sizing) buffers and use an event-based structure for the application*
This would be all the better.