Nonsense. There is absolutely nothing diligent about having an ability to wipe someone's personal data that has no connection to your business, under any circumstances.
> Remote-wipe is part of the technical contract you enter into when you link your phone to your company's internal infrastructure. Therefore, while it's totally reasonable to be outraged at the prospect of your employer wiping your phone, the answer is simply "don't let them".
So, here's Flawed Cliché #1 in the opposition argument: "If you don't like it, don't sign up for it."
Unfortunately, if this sort of behaviour is tolerated, it becomes an assumption by management that it is acceptable. Refusing to accept it yourself then gets you a black mark in some manager's mental file, at best.
Moreover, the risk to the personal phone here is completely disproportionate. This sort of link could be established by an employee without any awareness of the potential consequences, in response to a casual request by a manager before the employee goes off to a conference the following week.
> Why do IT departments need this capability? That's easy: when you synced your phone up to their email system, you collected an unspecified number of company secrets. Some of those secrets come with a legal obligation to safeguard them.
Flawed Cliché #2: "You have to protect company secrets."
Firstly, this is a complete straw man: protecting company secrets from the company mail server does not in any way require deletion of personal data on a personal phone.
Secondly, if the company has legal or regulatory constraints in how it handles some data, it should not be providing access to that data on a system that is not supplied, properly configured and fully secured by the company's experts anyway.
> Companies turn over tens or even hundreds of employees a week. It's absurd to suggest that they'd leave this matter up to chance, with or without a "scrub your device regularly" policy.
Flawed Cliché #3: "We need to secure our data when people leave to protect us against inside jobs."
Firstly, anyone who is pulling off an inside job is probably not going to leave the only copy of valuable/sensitive data on their personal phone.
Secondly, maybe you should be more careful with who you hire if this is a serious problem. Someone who is determined to pull off an inside job isn't going to be stopped by such a simplistic approach.
Basically, your entire counter-argument is a non-argument. Nothing you have said in any way justifies a company having the power to interfere with your personal data, and if they need that kind of power over company data because of its sensitivity then they should not be relying on employees' own devices anyway.