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There are several sentences in the piece dedicated to explaining that treating the [emotion] section as a synonym for [attack that happens to be prefixed with the word feel] is a corruption of the practice.

There’s also a section explaining the difference between requests and demands.

But your formulation does tend to highlight why people get incensed at amateurish imitations of NVC.

Reading your post, I feel that you don't understand the article. I come to HN for substantive commentary that engages and expands upon the source material. Would you be able to read it again with a fresh perspective, and share your criticism in a less sarcastic and more informative way?

"you're acting like a dickhead" is not an observation, it is a characterisation.

"the urge to punch you" could be phrased as "angry" perhaps?

"fking professionalism" isn't what you need, it is a trait you want the other person to show. What is it that you need?