You're right, but, at least for laptops, they're still so much better (as in: less frustrating) than the alternatives that it's not even close.
I own a top of the line BTO 2017 and 2018 MacBook Pro 15".
A large part of the reason the Mac touchpad works so well is tuning in software. I doubt you could come close to tuning it as finely under Linux, but it works well enough.
That being said, the X1 touch pad with Synaptics software can't match a Mac touchpad. If you're not willing to make a compromise on this specific requirement then stick with your Mac.