I was 24 when I got my driver's license and I've probably driven a dozen times total since then (rental cars in Hawaii, Colorado, or LA mostly). It's really easy, and I feel a lot better for having that ability. I'm 100% glad I did it and added that valuable life skill to my arsenal, despite still hating driving and still almost never using it.
I recommend it.
I suppose you can just shrug and be OK with pretty much staying in or near cities but that seems to close off a lot of options.
I also couldn't deal with day-to-day things without a car but that's at least somewhat manageable depending upon where you live and work.
ADDED: I'm not a typical Silicon Valley developer to be sure, but I couldn't even have done my first job absent a drivers license. It may be worth asking if you want to be employable outside of certain bubbles where you'll be the weird person who always needs a ride because they can't drive even though they don't have a disability.
You say that as if only a tiny minority of jobs will let you get by without a car. Most white collar jobs will not require you to drive anywhere.
Every half-way senior engineer I know (and I'm not even talking sales, system engineers/solution architects, product managers, and so forth) routinely travel to customer sites or branch locations that require driving under at least some circumstances.
Uber/Lyft have absolutely helped with some edge cases. I was at a work event just a couple weeks ago where my default in the past would have been to rent a car and I didn't because, while the venue was about an hour drive from the airport, I didn't actually need to drive once I go there.
It is absolutely the expectation at most jobs that you can drive if need be.
If you're a white collar worker in NYC or SF, you're more likely than not not to own a car, or if you do, to use it almost exclusively for personal reasons and not for work reasons.
As a counterpoint, I've frequently had to drive to customers, job sites, etc. but then I mostly haven't lived or worked in a city.
But yes, I'm in agreement with you that the DL is an essential skill and that not having it can be limiting.
You're making a broad generalization based on nothing but personal anecdote. In my personal experience, on the other hand, I don't know a single person who has ever needed to drive for work.
On second thought, I guess experience differs a lot based on location. Not having a drivers licence is pretty unimaginable for me where I live.
Your college friends are not going to give you rides forever. And your work options, living options, and vacation options are going to be quite limited. Obviously some people do it, but it's hard to imagine for a typical middle-class professional over the long term.
Even people I've known in Manhattan who put it off for a few years learned to drive eventually.
On the other hand, I know a lot of city dwellers and even those few who don't own cars because they don't need one day to day are constantly using either short-term or longer-term rentals to get around the surrounding area for various activities. (Or doing those activities with people who have cars though that tends to become more difficult as your circle of friends gets older.)
On another note if I had a daughter, I would be more careful. I don’t think anyone is going to bother my 6 foot 200 pound son.....
A large part of their losses are down to expansion. The markets they've become established in are profitable.
In addition, Los Angeles is number 87. The only other entry in North America is Toronto-Hamilton (#83).
The top 90 cities (i.e. up to and including New York City) have a combined population of 965 million.
Also note that smallest in the top 100 is 4.3 million, so this probably misses a lot of smaller but more dense cities.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_urban_areas_by_populat...
You run into the same sorts of things with most cities. Urban density is at least somewhat a function of fairly arbitrary political boundaries.