>"It's not a hotel, and it's not vacation!"

So what - because it isnt a hotel patients shouldnt try to make their stay less uncomfortable?

>Usually wifes and girlfriends cutting food for male patients who have absolutely nothing wrong with their hands or minds.

A hospital stay is unpleasant for most people and those close to them like doing what little they can do to make it a tiny bit better. Is that really so bad?

Honestly, it is disappointing to me when I hear about medical practitioners who can't think of the patients as humans (even if cold detachment is definitely helpful in other situations).