would love to hear input from people with both lab and software dev experience to compare and contrast the two notetaking experiences
Source: I have a decade of experience in science, and some 5 years in software development.
I'm now at another large university-affiliated research lab and excel is king here as well, though I can get away with using Matlab generated plots in my slides when I'm working solo. People still don't like python for some reason.
I had a similar experience with paper writing-- in academics it was conventional to do everything in LaTeX from my first lab courses in freshman year. In both workplaces, we've just been using word.
And it's not that people don't know python/latex here-- we've just apparently developed a culture of using these matlab/excel/word tools instead.