Disadvantage to the end user of the car: Cycling the batteries more to do this will shorten their useful life.
Additionally even on those top 1% days (3.5 days a year) there's likely only a few hours where the load is near max.
So if say 1M (2% or so of all cars) cars in a country like Germany would contribute say 25% of their capacity just 3-4 days a year it could make a significant difference and make the power grid more reliable and allow the least efficient peaker plants to be decommissioned.
Even over a decade of use, electric car owners aren't going to notice 25% of their battery being used 3-4 times a year.