> he emailed to "give me the bad news," he said "we're going with another candidate, but enjoy your summer at Company X!" I'd say this loosely qualifies as rejecting me like an asshole.
Really? Wow. I'd have interpreted that as an attempt at being "friendly", showing at least some personal interest and wishing you well.
I guess that goes to show it's difficult to predict how other people will interpret things. :)