How are dollars I have paid to the government any more mine than dollars I have paid to a company?
I'll correct my original comment then:
At least private companies that compete in a relatively free market are losing their own earned money when they're inefficient, not someone else's.
Private companies are losing money on behalf of their owners or shareholders.
If you don’t like your employer healthcare, quit and find another or buy it on your own. There is choice there and you just don’t like it.
It is a myth that corporations like free markets.