> The community says no such thing, that's the insult. The community even has multiple options current and past to reduce frictions on using things that aren't packaged
Some parts of the community do, namely the ones that came up with AppDirs, AppImages, and to a lesser extent Flatpak and Snap. The fact that these have not been widely adopted by the community over the past decade of their existence says all that needs saying about the community at large.
Instead, what happens? Libraries routinely break ABIs, paths are hardcoded at compile time. Etc. If you complain about such things what do you get? An earful about how you should just use the package manager.
> Your characterization of what a distro is and how it treats its users is insulting
My characterization of distro's treatment of users is insulting because it characterizes their treatment of users as insulting... ok, sure. Then I guess it is an insult, and I feel no need to apologize for that.
> exactly because it completely discounts the huge effort that's put into solving the complex issues and the advantages it brings.
That's mostly because I can't really think of any benefits. I suppose a centralized location to obtain software? That's.... something I guess. Otherwise it is a giant, over-engineered mess of a system that largely only serves to solve problems it has created for itself.
> You're not offering an argument for how things work today
These things exist today, all that has to happen is for the community to start using them.
> You're not offering time or other resources to help.
See project this comment thread is about. They tried to help, the community told them to shove it. That's a story I've seen repeated many times, from embedded ELF icons to the many variations of AppDirs. There is nothing left to do but call the community out on why their crap is crap.
Maybe I should just keep quiet about it? Yeah, maybe. I'm either preaching to the choir or committing horrific sacrilege depending on which perspective you're reading this from. But I guess I take it personally that there are so many people so intent on computing being awful.