Ask HN: What Are Hard Things?
There’s a post at the op of the first page called “How to do hard things.” It made me wonder, “What do HN folks consider hard?” Any answers are viable based on your fame of reference in the space-time continuum.
Yes. raising one toddler was harder than I expected, two is not simple addition. Like kittens. It's an exponent. Figure when the youngest hits 10 you may be able to have a life of your own. By that time your goals may have changed. The sleep thing does get better eventually but then everything else happens.
There's other opinions and I say nothing against them; but i will repeat what others have said: It's worth the time. Raising another human being truly is one of the most rewarding things one can do.