Not the person you're replying to but hopefully useful information: I stopped using Google services incrementally over the past year or so. I started with this distro on my 5x (but had difficulty getting updates to work) and eventually moved to an iPhone. In the last few months I've switched to DuckDuckGo for search, Firefox for browsing and offline Open Street Maps for navigation. I still have a gmail account but I only check it about once per month, if that. I suspect I'll export my data from it soon and close it.

It was tricky in places and fiddly in others, but overall I'm happy that I'm doing a reasonable amount to keep Google out of my life without being inconvenienced now. A piecemeal approach certainly worked for me, so I'd certainly recommend that to minimise impact for anyone thinking of doing the same.

Search is the easiest to replace. There are plenty of other search engines available, and Google Search really isn't all that good anymore. They're mostly good if you're looking for big sites, news sites, or commercial stuff. Anything obscure they don't seem to know anymore.

Replacing gmail is possible, but annoying, because I've got way too many site subscriptions tied to it. I really need to start using email addresses on my own domain for everything from now on. That way, in the future it's painless to switch email providers.

Android is one of the hardest, because of all the Android apps that rely on Google services. I'll definitely be checking out Lineage + microG.

"Aversion" is such a strong word... I mean, yes, I try to avoid Google due to privacy concerns. That means no more Chrome, no Google-Search-as-default and not logging in via Google.

OTOH, you're totally right about striking a balance: If I'm sitting at work, looking something up and DuckDuckGo doesn't yield the expected results I'm quick to prepend a "!g" - which gets me the desired information in about 90% of the cases. Or if I plan a trip in advance I use Google Maps so I can get a good estimate of the travel time for a specific time of day.

Also: My SO and I have a shared Google Calendar, which I sync to my device via DAV.

I just stopped indiscriminately streaming all my personal information to Google, instead I gained some more control about what data the company gets.