I do all the laundry, cook on weekends (and on weekdays if required), etc. That's not the point. My wife wants to be able to pursue a career of her own not just for money. She won't be able to do this without a H4 EAD
It is still strange to me. If she would do the laundry and cooking while you work, then the time you would have spent on those chores could be spent with her. You could go hiking, visit museums, play cards, take flying lessons, take scuba lessons, go dancing, etc.