Agile is a mindset.
Understand the mindset, absorb it, make it yours, and build the process that's working for you based on that mindset.
Stop complaining about Scrum, it's just a tool, and tools deprecate.
Since everyone is doing, or claims to be doing, agile, the whole notion is completely meaningless. Unless they are actively advertising to be doing some form of waterfall, you can safely assume there is some notion of iterations involved.
What matters more these days is whether the team is mature enough to have continuous deployment without process bureaucracy. Deployment fear is a good sign the process sucks. If you have a need for human gatekeepers, something is wrong with the test automation. Deploying often and with confidence is a good sign you are dealing with a smoothly running team.