Then you change doctors until you find someone that will listen to you.
But believe me there are bad doctors out there (your specific case) so you'll have to switch.
The problem is not with individual doctors, it is that the structure {legal, economic} surrounding mental health favors getting people on medication, but doesn't create good paths for them to get off (at least in the US).
I’m sure there will be/are places where these databases are run by private companies with no accountability and no way to issue a complaint.