Technically this is definitely not true. Any modern RC wing will use software to do elevon mixing and get elevator/aileron input into the actual mechanical surfaces. It's possible to do this mechanically but software is so much simpler it's a no brainer to just have a servo per surface and do everything else in software.
It may be true in the spirit of this discussion in the sense that most RC wings just do fixed software mappings between inputs and outputs instead of having an on-board computer taking into account attitude/airspeed/etc and adjusting the inputs based on this. That's what's actually needed for aerodynamically unstable aircraft and RC wings generally don't need that, although similar kinds of hardware do exist in the RC world and are used sometimes.