The “rent vs. buy” dilemma (2018)
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This is really not true, at least not in high-demand areas. First of all the seller pays the fees typically, and they are much lower. Redfin for example costs you 1% in the Bay Area. If your agent is telling you it will be 10% then you’re being taken for a ride.
10% in rural America doesn't sound too strange to me.
If both the buyer and seller are using Redfin instead of a traditional agent, the buyer is paying all cash (some of the closing costs are a result of needing to get a mortgage) and the buyer is willing to take some risks like not getting the house inspected and not paying for title insurance, you might get that down to 3%. That's still a big chunk of money being spent on the transaction.
There's much more than just agent fees to include in these costs. Title insurance. Closing. Mortgage origination fees. Etc.
As others noted, you're only referring to the agent commission. This isn't the entire transaction cost.
And saying the seller pays it is like saying corporations pay tax ... all costs are passed on to the buyer in the form of higher prices (than would be otherwise).