Like you, I only own a place as a compromise with my wife. And like you, I hate everything that comes with homeownership. People don’t realize there are a lot of hidden costs in owning a home.
When you rent, if you secure a 12 month lease, you know exactly how much you’re spending in housing over the next year.
When you own, all bets are off. This year for example we’ve already spent a couple thousand dollars on appliances that broke. There are things around the place we know are gonna need repairs soon and those are gonna cost us a few hundred more.
Our situation is compounded by being under an HOA, so special assessments are always a possibility.
I know two people who sold their homes and went back to renting specifically because they couldn’t put up with maintaining a home anymore.
I saw renting as paying for a service. I know I wasn’t building equity, but I saw it as paying for not having to worry about all the crap I have to worry about now. Any issue was a phone call and $0 away from getting resolved and the maintenance folks were always awesome at the place where we lived.