DRY is a awful "thing" (a decree at best). In the worst interpretation it simply says "never write the same code twice". There is no balance or end to it. It doesn't have a competitor or alternative. It somewhat implies that it is always good. It doesn't define a scope where/when it should be applied. There is simply no broad agreement how to use it in practice. DRY touches multiple concepts, each too complex to put behind three tiny letters.
OP fails to make a great point, but the direction is right. We cannot take DRY and "code reuse" laws as granted. Abstractions and indirections have their downsides. It increases systemic complexity and may add dependencies. It certainly limits how easy the full system can be understood by humans.