Whitewashing history to make it more palatable is dangerous.
[0] https://www.history.com/news/slavery-profitable-southern-eco...
Depends on the state, if I'm remembering correctly. New Jersey allowed certain women and african americans to vote until (I believe) 1806.
Dirtying history to make our advancements larger is also dangerous.
> That all inhabitants of this Colony, of full age, who are worth fifty pounds proclamation money, clear estate in the same, and have resided within the county in which they claim a vote for twelve months immediately preceding the election, shall be entitled to vote for Representatives in Council and Assembly; and also for all other public officers, that shall be elected by the people of the county at large.
It's probably also worth noting that these restrictions applied to men, too.
0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_the_New_Jersey_Stat...
Some of the English settlers were decent people with functional societies.
Some of them were basically the christian Taliban.
The heavily religious communities in the early US didn't display any of the tribal behaviour commonly seen amongst the Taliban (which are the cause of most of the governance issues in Afghanistan), just the extremely strict adherence to religion which is in some ways a superficial similarity as the average person in those times was as fanatically religious as only the most hardcore Christian today.
For instance Cousin marriage wasn't a thing at all (which is one of the main ways of maintaining tribal cohesion) while it is still extremely common in Afghanistan and the Middle East today.
Nit picking over the particulars of how they ran their society does not make them any less a bunch of fundamentalist jerks.
Like the US in its current coast to coast form didn't spring out fully formed from Liberty's bosom. It also had centuries of European innovation that lead to it.