None of those markets are really zero-sum. People value different things in all of those markets (jobs etc). Zero-sum is an edge case.
[1] https://web.archive.org/web/20170127222943/https://blog.okcu...
If the market is to exchange affection, it's positive-sum. If the market is a status good, it's zero-sum.
The people aiming for a certain position or role mostly care about similar things though.
So don't they play a zero sum game ?