I agree from a cashflow perspective, a mortgage even if you have substantial equity can be bad, but most people don't get into debt trouble from mortgages, unless they got some kind of absurd mortgages for close to the value of the property, resetting ARMs, and fundamentally have more house than they otherwise would have purchased. True, a lot of people did this, but it's a historical anomaly.
But I'm sure you knew all that and were just trying to make a point :)
Incidentally, I'm not sure why mortgage debt is more misleading than other debt. If I have $500k in the bank but owe $50k on an auto loan or credit card, is that somehow worse than owning a $500k house with $50k mortgage debt?
As for the call-option nature of loans, that only applies in a few states (admittedly including CA and TX), and only to some loans (mostly only the first loan). While you are probably right that some mortgages should be excluded for this reason, I'd be surprised if they were the majority.