For example as a Black person I know my vote won't count for much in Georgia, and that the state is actively working to disenfranchise it [0]. I also know that I won't have the ability to plan my family [1]. I know I might get weird looks if I'm in a non-heteronormative relationship [2].
So the problem most people have with "red" states isn't that people love God, love cops and love pickup trucks, it's that these areas actively working to restrict our "blue" freedoms.
0: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2019/aug/14/stacey-abram...
1: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/05/07/us/heartbeat-bill-georgia...
2: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/20/us/tennessee-internet-min... (Note, this is about Tennessee, but similar attitudes pervade the South)
Say what you will about voter suppression in Atlanta, but a vote counted there is worth a lot more than a vote counted in California.
Flip Georgia blue, and you’re making real change.
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