> Good luck with that, on many devices the BMC gets silently bridged onto the lan ports even if you make a significant effort to prevent it.
I don't think that's true.
I can't speak for all devices, but I've worked with a lot of Dell and SuperMicro servers and they all have an option in the BIOS for this. You specify if the BMC should operate on it's own dedicated network port or share the network port used for primary network uplink.
From the network traffic logs I've gathered, I've never seen any indication of the BMC interfering with the primary LAN ports when the BMC is set to use the dedicated LAN port. Additionally, the BMC doesn't revert back to the shared port if the link is broken on the dedicated port -- the BIOS setting prevents that.
At my company we've configured all of the BMCs to use the dedicated LAN port, those LAN ports are connected to physically separate top of cabinet switches, and those switches are linked to a fully independent core router with it's own independent uplink to the internet. The BMCs are only assigned private network IPs and can only be accessed by outside users through a VPN. This is all very standard practice for the hosting industry.