> Are you somehow supporting the hospitals separately from the taxes that everyone else pays?
Yes. The cost of my health insurance is based off of the cost to hospitals; hospitals need to charge paying customers more if they have to write off their non-paying customers.
> All of our stupid pointless wars cost me money, as well as being deeply evil, but that argument hasn't stopped them yet...
Our stupid pointless wars are indeed one of the biggest breakdowns in democracy. Bush promised to stay out of foreign entanglements and Obama promised to leave Iraq and Afghanistan. As CiC, the president does not need any help from congress to withdraw (or refrain from sending) troops, so these are much easier promises to follow through on those that require congressional approval.
> in the meantime keep your hands off my consumption of beverages.
If you're going to wait for politicians to act with high standards of ethics before they pass any regulations, you are, for all practical purposes, arguing for anarcho-libertarianism.