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> 1. "As a male, it becomes very difficult to stand out if you are actually interested in someone."

How is this an incel statement?

> 5. "All dating apps are filled with fakes and scams mostly perpetrated by those who own the app to milk you of your money.

We just saw that this isn't such a crazy concept.

Interested in hearing what I might've misunderstood.

Because in reality it probably applies to both genders. Is it easier for women to stand out if you're actually interested?

Standing out in a group of hundreds or thousands of people (as with tinder) is always hard, dating doesn't have anything to do with that.

Does it apply to both equally?

Take a good looking man and a good looking woman and look at their inbox. Who has more messages?

Take an average looking man and average looking woman. Who has more messages?

My understanding is that the women will tend to get far more messages than the men do.

If that's true, it'll always be harder to stand out of the crowd when you're sending messages to a full inbox.

What does incel have to do with that?

5 definitely isn’t, it’s not a gender specific comment and backed up by the post lol.