So I’m working on getting better and getting more confident.
So I’m working on getting better and getting more confident.
Don't. There are so many poorly performing queries and databases in the world that you could make a very tidy income just specializing in sorting that out. Even if you knew nothing else that skill will keep you employable for decades to come.
I suspect there is quite some business helping companies wanting to transition from Oracle or MongoDB to PostgreSQL.
If the administration part is a necessary tax to be paid then so be it if I get to do the other part.
FWIW, I'd say the most important characteristic of terrible programmers is their supreme unearned confidence!
Which is to say: Focus on getting better. The confidence is secondary.
My secret trick is simply to ask people for help when I'm stuck.