Truly sorry to hear about your loss. Actual pancreatic cancer is virtually incurable, and far too few resources are allocated to its research versus less deadly cancers.
For example, breast cancer affects around 207K people (yes, even men get it, albeit rarely) and ends up killing around 40K people a year. Pancreatic cancer affects 43K people, and ends up killing 37K every year. [1]
All cancer research is important, but we should really step up as a society when it comes to cancers that happens to be a dead sentence over the course of 5 years or so.
I personally donate to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, and you can do the same here: http://www.pancan.org/
[1] http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/types/commoncancers