17? That seems a bit young to be playing boyfriend to everyone online. I'm sure he isn't even the youngest aged youtuber doing this. Is this weird or just me?
But this problem is nearly universal to all boyfriend/girlfriend roleplay asmr videos.
What if the person watching is much older or younger(like an 8 year old or 50 year old) etc.
Youtube doesn't offer much in terms of setting an age group for an intended audience. You could tag is as mature, but that only splits it to 18+/ or not 18+. And even if someone were to tag their video as being for a specific gender or age group, there is no preventing someone from outside that group watching it.
It may be awkward, but it comes with the territory. Asmr artists on youtube have pretty much come to accept it.
But even regular ASMR embarasses me, so I guess these things just creep me out, regardless how old they are.