At my current work nobody talks about SQL, literally every discussion starts with "We will create this new Rails model". Indexes are not created deliberately - we are adding them only when the need is obvious, because some functionality is plain slow. No one talks about SQL, plain SQL queries in code are considered really bad practice - in cases where the query generated by Rails is complex and slow and a plain SQL query is PR-ed, the code reviews discussions are pretty long.
I am not saying this is good or bad, in fact all looks OK, but I was really really surprised at the beginning.