"I don't care about other peoples suffering." "I do care about oil. This doesn't really effect oil tho."
Conclusion:
"So I don't need to care about any of this, and I don't"
Observation:
You might be a person who literally only cares about things that directly effect them. You might want to have that looked into.
Here's what to do instead: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsfaq.html#cflag.
Verbs and nouns matter.
Sometimes it's just time to cut bait.
If you find yourself on occasion wondering if you are, or other people pointing out that you might be, that certainly doesn't mean that you are. More likely you've post hoc created a narrative and justification of 'don't care'.
That doesn't make it better - arguably worse. The psychopath has an excuse.
'Bleeding heart' - yeah nice one. That must be it.