To go further, I have a colleague who says there are actually no particles, only waves interacting with other waves. I am trying to get him to make a proper thesis out of this but he is busy trying to earn money to support his family. If there are any theories about this, please link them in the thread! It sort of resonates with what Richard Feynman has been demonstrating in some of his lectures but I have not been able to find the right keywords to search the internet, or the best way to ask scientists.
Problems of hobby scientists...