*** | Company  | Employees
  ----|----------|---------------
  [F] | Facebook |   39,651 (2019)
  [A] | Amazon   |  647,500 (2018)
  [A] | Apple    |  132,000 (2018)
  [N] | Netflix  |    5,400 (2017)
  [G] | Google   |  103,459 (2019)
  ---------------|---------------
  Total          | ±928,010 (2019)

With all due respect, you are only one in ±1M people working in this group of companies, not very representative.

I also work at a FAANG and many of my colleagues have excellent interpersonal skills, you cannot disregard that.