Eventually you'll move on from using any of the icons and shortcut everything anyway, because you can be so blazing fast.
Try it out, it's fun and free.
It's not that the apps I already know have an especially good UX or that Blender is especially bad - it's just that Blender makes few concessions to existing conventions and doesn't provide much in terms of discoverability.
2.8 is definitely a step in the right direction but lets not get ahead of ourselves in praising it as suddenly becoming a paragon of usability.
But this behavior has exception. Sometimes some keys have global effect. For example, Shift Space always runs the animation.
What other things you find tricky in Blender?
Space or Shift-Space or whatever the new 2.8 default shortcut is opens up an action menu with every possible action available to you and a search bar to explore them.
Actually, with this feature Blender surpasses most other creative suites in terms of discoverability. Perhaps what you are really looking for is a tutorial? They have those, too.
I picked it up again about a month ago, and this time it seemed to just click. In my case part of it might be that I did use it briefly before, but as well I think the combination of a very thoughtful redesign and the excellent new “Blender Fundamentals 2.8” videos[1] that they lead you to right after you download Blender.
1: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLa1F2ddGya_-UvuAqHAks...