Which is why my family, my girlfriend's family, and all our friends just use my Plex server
For a decade now, Plex runs on any Windows / Mac / Linux device. It'll run on a Raspberry Pi. NVIDIA Shield. Western Digital's My Cloud NAS products (from $139 w/ 2TB). QNAP. Synology.
The main obstacle for "average" people is just knowing that Plex exists.
Knowing that Plex exists is certainly one thing. But you still need to run it somewhere.
I think you underestimate people a bit too much.
"You use your remote to choose the show you want to watch, and you watch it" is worth $10-15 a month to people when it's compared to "You buy a server, plug it in and leave it on all the time, maybe be responsible for software updates on a regular basis, and also set up some kind of torrenting system to request the shows you want in advance".
Running Plex with whatever computer they've got isn't a stretch.
Plex ;)