Layer one: come on. Context matters. Do people really freak out about words in isolation that resemble words in unrelated sentences? That's silly.
Layer two: Do people really do that? I know a lot of very left-of-center "woke" people (of various kinds) and I never hear this kind of thing. I have never heard someone get offended at a "slave" database or "quantum supremacy" or even "male" vs "female" plugs. People I know seem capable of parsing context and know that if I talk about a male connector going into a female connector I am talking about plugs and not gender politics and there is no additional subtext intended.
Maybe I just don't know these over-reactive people who are incapable of parsing complete sentences, discerning context and subtext, and detecting social cues.
... or maybe these people are largely a figment of the reactionary right ...?
I can't tell whether that's the case because this is just not a thing I see in my slice of the real world. The whole "based" vs "woke" reactionary right vs histrionic left flame war seems like something from a parallel universe that I don't inhabit, a universe where the human brain never evolved the capacity to parse language in units larger than two words.
Huge shrug...
All I do know is that there are better things to do than care about any of this stuff.