The reality, in turn, exists independently and does blow your mind every moment given that you are not lowering your attention by deciding what is important and what is not. Children know this perfectly well and can be engaged and mind-blown at every little thing until society forces its rules which in turn develops a layer called personality or ego and after some time only that becomes real. This is where one disconnects from the magic and mind-blowingness of reality, and as a result dissatisfaction, depression and all sorts of mental problems start appearing.
But paying indiscriminate attention to everything can bring back the initial raw perception with all it's joy and wonders and is something they found out in the East, including hinduism and buddhism practices.