2. is a great question I would like an answer to.
Here is a side by side comparison with an a320: https://aviation.stackexchange.com/questions/61161/is-there-...
Here is a side by side comparison with an a320: https://aviation.stackexchange.com/questions/61161/is-there-...
I've read (but not confirmed) one of the other things keeping the 737 so low to ground is the type of emergency exit used. Extending the gear so that the whole mess sits higher off the ground would require new exits and a ton of extra things to certify.
On the other hand, building a plane so aerodynamically unsound that it cratered 346 customers the moment it went out the door is the very textbook definition of “false economy”. One that Boeing itself will be paying for for years to come; even as those who made all the actual decisions gently golden-parachute to the ground.