If you've got the cash and don't have to have your next gig set up, give your two weeks now and start the mental healing.
If you've got the cash and don't have to have your next gig set up, give your two weeks now and start the mental healing.
As a hiring manager, I would not care at all about a non-comprehensive list, but I would absolutely care about someone trying to hide past employment
For example - during the 2008 downturn, I worked a job that was not terrible, but used tools and hard skills that were completely non-transferrable to any job I've had since then. So I no longer put it on my resume even though I was there for 2 years. Would that two year gap over a decade ago be a conversation? Assuming of course, that I even put anything prior to 2010 on an application anymore.
I guess for me - do you dig into every gap you see? Maybe they left under good circumstances and just don't want to list the job because they weren't proud of the work they did there.
07-2019 - Present: ACME blbalbalablablablaba
05-2016 - 06-2019: Tesla blabalbalablablabalbalab
Other relevant experience: * Apple, blablaba * Facebook, blablabla
Although I started doing this around the fifth year of my career, I'm now a graybeard that has been in the business for a very long time and have racked up a lengthy work history. Nobody is going to want to read through a 5 page resume.
My practice for a couple of decades now has been what you state here -- I write a new CV for each position I'm applying for, and only include the things that indicate my fitness for that position. I'm always prepared to provide a complete work history if anyone asks, but I don't remember anyone ever asking.
But I found (n=2) that recruiters/hiring managers got hung up on that one 4 month block vs. the 15+ years of other experience I had on there. One asked "Well if you're going to cut bait and run at the hint of small issue, why hire you?" It's hard to explain, without disparaging the employer, that the 4 months you were there had you in therapy 3 days a week just to keep your sanity :) And it is a he said/they said type situation.
Given how some companies I've worked for used me for their benefit, I feel zero guilt over leaving off the ones that were toxic.
Better to say another form of the truth: the company was a poor fit.