[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_energy#Evidence_of_existe... [2]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_matter#Observational_evid...
People really seem to be having trouble with the fact that dark matter and dark energy are 'placeholder terms' to account for stuff we're actually seeing. With future discoveries in science the terms will be replaced, superseded or perhaps disappear. But observation or 'detection' of both dark matter and dark energy is in fact there.
Placeholder is the correct term but people tend to leap from "matter" and "energy" to "stuff" (I'm assuming you didn't intend the implication) without understanding those terms (dark matter and dark energy) are preliminary - if well informed - guesses.
They are "placeholders" because our models are wrong. Which is fine: all models are wrong, but some models are useful.
And astronomy is particularly vulnerable to this - its models are being applied to make predications at extremes of both time and scale.
But I PROMISE you, we're wrong. We know we're wrong, and we don't know why (and recently there's even been some fair criticism of our models that we use to gauge distance, so no, I'd argue we have not reasonably "detected" anything other than that our models are wrong - STILL USEFUL but wrong)
If you cannot detect something, it's can be equally ridiculous to say it exists.
Was it ridiculous to say those might exist?
Obviously we mostly remember those theories that turned out to be right.
That is not how science works. There are other ways of judging if a theory is worth exploring than just a "it must be testable right now".
This does not mean that it's matter specifically (just a label), but is a phenomena.
But, for instance, electroweak interaction is being looked at, I gather?
It's a limitation of all purely observational sciences.