I use bit.ly links to get real-time tracking. Is there another way to do that? If so, I'm happy to change. Nobody is trying to trick anybody into anything.
If you'd like, how about a big notice at the top of the page that lets people know all links are referral links? There's already one on the main page. Would that make you feel better?
EDIT: I've updated all the pages to include a notice about all the outbound links. Since I still haven't heard anything as far as how to replace the real-time tracking bit.ly offers, it stays in there.
As far as the lack of comments, several HN'ers I know don't comment on SEO on here any more. People just get too irrational about it.
And I should have known better than to feed the comment trolls.