Your argument rationalizes literally every dark pattern in ux that has ever existed. No of course there isn't a gun to anyone's head here. That's not the point that anyone is arguing. The point is that it encourages someone in a position of trust to act against a patient's interest. They at least share blame with the physician. I'd say most of the blame, because if this feature didn't exist, the physician wouldn't act against the patient's self interest. The world isn't black and white, it's why manslaughter exists as a crime and why we don't just have murder.