I suppose it is like getting turned down for a date. The other person will rarely be honest about why, and the reasons given (if any) are worthless.
I think FAANG do a really good job of preparing you for exactly what kinds of questions to expect as well as resources to study for them. That also generally reduces the need for feedback afterwards.
What you can get out of an interview is a lot of information about the competence and culture of the company. Did the interview feel like a real attempt by good people to hire someone like you into a company you'd like to work for? If not, put them on your ban list and never look back.