I change my own oil 9 times out of 10, my point is its not noteworthy whether I do it or a dealer does it.

It's just a task that has to be done.

Some dealers will do a better job than me and some will do a worse job, but for the most part at the end of the day the task is usually done.

Likewise with cooking.

Some experiences will be worse, it might cost more it might take a while, but at the end of the day on average I will have food that is enjoyable.

And if eating out is 2x eating in, it doesn't matter to most people if they can afford both.