However I am very sad he died because I subsequently got a raise and met my wife at my next company.
However I am very sad he died because I subsequently got a raise and met my wife at my next company.
I stuck around at one company for way too long too, earlier in my career. I finally got pushed out because of a bunch of layoffs. I got a huge raise at my next company, plus a more interesting job too, and better coworkers. I should have looked around earlier, but I was comfortable at that job and afraid of leaving. (That next job ended up not lasting too, again due to mismanagement resulting in laying off my whole team, but the job after also came with another big raise...)
I think the moral here is to not ever get too comfortable at any one job, and don't take things personally if you get laid off: the company is probably being stupid and losing a great asset.
List of ideas:
1) Oracle fired me to save money, or something? But then replaced me with x number of fresh grad employees who have to be onboarded to my level of productivity?
2) My salary went up and I am much more productive at my new company, which is also a big corp... so theoretically I am more "efficiently allocated" and literally everything was a win/win?
3) But also like others said, it could all be luck and randomness and there are others who get very depressed and/or can't find any work at all?
It's very tough to say, there's no way to predict the future, so it's wise not to attach lots of meaning to anecdotes :)