Why does the ownership start at the post level and not the comment? If you consider that comments shouldn't be removable, that the post is now the owner of its child, what about the higher hierarchy. Is the forum category creator is the owner of the post too?
> However, it's insane that the rows themselves disappear, because there's no indicator that anyone else ever participated in that discussion (and thus most old comment threads appear schizophrenic)
If the cost of staying owner of what you post is a few comment threads that "appear schizophrenic", it doesn't seems like an high cost to pay.